Through the many years of coaching/mentoring and counseling I choose to see the lighter side of life, with so many sad life situations that can and have been in all of our lives perhaps we need to see life as a journey. Below is an interesting statement that reflects some of the humor I have shared with clients to lighten our way. Nancy
This life is a test. It is only a test. If it had been an actual life,
you would have received further instructions on where to go and what to do - next.
After many thousands of "Sessions" of accessing a Client's "Life Time Line", and reporting back the requested information; I am starting to wonder the limitations of our "Free Will". What is noticed is that a pattern has shown up in answering a Client's personal questions. I now believe,
I can not tell you something that "You are Afraid to Know" and thus you will block me from obtaining information.
And, I can not tell you something that "is Your Destiny" and the struggle to choose can not be taken from you.
A few years ago, I talked to a Psychic friend about Free Will, the frankness of her statement has encouraged me to challenge my own psychic abilities in accessing "Your Time Line" for the highest levels of accuracy. My friend "Donna" passed to spirit on February 7, 2000, and as many of you who have lost close friends, I loved her and she is missed greatly. Being an intuitive, she profoundly changed my life with her particular insights. Now, my quest is to give guidance to those who can hear their particular "Truth" from my perspective. I received a powerful statement from her in asking what her belief of the amount of Free Will we actually have. Several months later after realizing how important her statement was, I included her statement in many talks and lectures. Her statement as close as I can remember went like this:
"Free Will is the anxiety of the choices you have to make to the final result that I can already see."
This challenges many theory's of the nature of the Universe we have learned to accept. Maybe there are choices to be alive in human form to accept a lifetime of human lessons and to accept the many challenges and choices that appear everyday in our lives. I believe that those of us that seek out and accept the spiritual information we can obtain from people like myself are given glimpses of choices to come. Some decisions that you need to make, I can tell you of the markers along the path of Life to ease some of the burdens of "choice". For those extremely important Life experiences that you should have no influence, no matter how hard I try I cannot get all the answers for you. Though hard to understand, spirit has told me that the greatest gift of Life is to be Alive and feel the emotions of Living. As many times I've told Parent of a child's schooling, upcoming marriage, or even a visual of a child yet to be conceived, when it came to the Mom asking about a job change for herself I was not able to tell her or what job was next. At times like that, what appeared to be "extremely powerful in her life" was the anxiety of changing jobs! That the stress of her life was the important issue!!! Never look at a Life situation and lessen the importance of choice and learning from that Human experience. After all, we are all Spiritual Beings living a Human Experience!
-A couple of expressions that clients have given me over time and those expressions that help me to explain a life lesson are listed below.
Live One Year as a Tiger than 100 Years as a Sheep
What will be, will always be - What cannot be, can never be.
Stepping out of the Box.
Once I said: "If I had known my decision would have been so painful, I would not have made it." My friend Donna countered: "But look at all the growth you had, there is never the wrong choice. Only lost time making none."
The future is the result of today's actions, the domino effect is in place. Ask questions. You have free will making choices, the result is always yours and yours alone. Trust your guidance, the future is marvelous and wondrous.
And finally the following was sent to me from "Jeff L" thank you for sharing these great thoughts!
"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well- preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming...
Wow!.... What a Ride!!!!!